Your ex girlfriend was obviously very unhappy in the relationship, or she would not have walked out on you. Also, there is a good chance that she still has deep feelings for you, because love cannot be simply switched off. Your ex didn’t simply decide that she didn’t want to love you anymore, and then walked out. You need to figure out what her reasons were, fix the problems, and then try to get your ex girlfriend back.
Think back bit, and try to remember what it was that she complained about on a regular basis. It doesn’t matter if the issues were big or small something needs to be done about them. If the small problems kept recurring, that would have been enough to drive your ex away from you.
Ignoring her complaints about what you were doing that was making her unhappy, gave her the impression that you didn’t care much about her feelings at all. Her feelings are important though, and because you didn’t respect them, you caused her to walk out on you. Fix all the mistakes that were making her fed up, and you have a good chance to get your ex girlfriend back.
In the meantime though, don’t even try to make contact with her. She is still too angry with you and will probably ignore your calls and messages anyway. Just leave her entirely alone to get over her anger. Once her emotions have cooled off, she will be a lot more approachable.
Concentrate all your time and energy on figuring out what mistakes you made, and then go all out and make the effort to fix them. If your girlfriend was complaining often that you were untidy on yourself, then do something about it. Buy yourself some new clothing and get spruced up – looking good will also give you a good chance to get your ex girlfriend back.
If some of the mistakes you have made cannot physically be fixed, then make a resolution to never do them again. If they make her unhappy, then it is worth your while to stop doing them. She will only be willing to stay in a relationship with you if she is happy.
So, to get your ex girlfriend back, you need to fix the problems you have caused, get yourself looking good, and make her happiness your top priority. If your girlfriend is happy, you will be happy, and your relationship will flourish.
Source by Ilona Benes